Is there really such a thing as true love between and man and a woman?

I don't think so. Otherwise why would there be so many divorces, this supposedly undying love turning from 'love' to hate overnight, lying to their spouse, cheating etc. Over the years people can learn to admire, respect, have faith in, want to be faithful, be comfortable with, become attached to their spouse and routine out of habit, but love? I'm talking about the kind that songs, movies and poetry are made of. Hmmm! In the beginning I think it is no more than intensified lust.