Men and women has this ever happened to you - what the hell do you call it?

Experience has taught me that if God wants you to to be together, you are both going to be totally in love. If not, you are not going to feel it. Even if everything else seems right. And makes it seem like you are closer, when emotionally you are not. If it hasn't happened by now, it probably won't. He may not be the one God has prepared for you.