Can I win back the heart of an Aquarius man?

I'm a Leo. I really pissed off my Aquarius friend. He pissed me off first with the "keep the wall between us crap". I tried really hard not to take it personal knowing that is how they are. But I couldn't help myself. I told him off like a true Leo can do. Now he won't talk to me. Probably if I humbled I might have a chance but I think he would see right through the bull crap. I can't bring myself to kiss up it's not me. Aquarius are so unforgiving. What can I do we meant alot to each other and I think I may have blown it. I really love him. We are ual partners too. I want our friendship back but with mutual respect. He said some really mean things too. What can I do?